There are a variety of organisations out there who promote awareness of the very fact that some canines need their own space and like not to be approached… you want to join them in elevating awareness of this concern. american bully temperamento
I’m sure like all of us, almost all of you fellow dog owners out there know a young child, perhaps even not so young, who loves to come up to your pups and give them a cuddle (and treat them like dolls or teddies)… sometimes this can be A BIG ‘NO, NO” and this is one of the main things we need to teach children. Dogs do not the natural way like being confined in an embrace – A CUDDLE IS NOT ORGANIC BEHAVIOUR TO GET A DOG.
Presently there are a number of explanations why dogs might not be comfortable being contacted or why their owner may well not want them to be approached; they could:
Be an old or nervous dog who won’t want or like attention and if this is forced on them, they could respond negatively (we’d put our eldest in this category, although she actually is rarely aggressive for this reason – she’ll normally seek to remove herself from the situation even only when by turning away)
Have been completely assaulted by another dog or treated badly with a person – dogs that have had a bad experience can have associations with certain types, colours, sizes; or breeds of pups or with the specific way someone looks; or a particular word or gesture – and we can simply guess what the trigger will be
End up being recovering from an procedure or have or be recovering from an health issues or ailment that may be infectious or triggers them to be more nervous than usual
Become a female in season, in which case the approach from a natural male – whether neutered or not – will probably be unwelcome (that’s another whole topic in itself)
Be a puppy, young dog or other dog in training, where the approach from someone more or another dog may be an unwelcome thoughts
Be a dog that has not been socialised properly and hasn’t learned dog language!
These dogs are generally not necessarily nasty or extreme – they just have different rules about their personal space. Many may even enjoy the company of some other canines… our eldest is very happy with the company of our youngest and sometimes asks her to play.
Even between dogs it can be regular for dogs to communicate whether or not they want to be approached and they’ll observe and esteem the signals they are given.
Our eldest Line Collie is an anxious dog and definitely will give clear signals to other canines that she does not want to be acknowledged, in the beginning by turning her head away, by turning her whole body away, by getting away and even lying down facing away.
You may well not know that not all canines understand dog language, this is the subject of another article of mine (“Why You Might Require To Teach Dog Dialect To Your Dog”). That is definitely true that very few people but not even many dog owners, understand dog language and some may have discovered very painful lessons as a result!
There are so many dogs around these days that they are hard to avoid and, whether or not individuals have a dog in the family, it would be sad if parents simply taught their children to avoid puppies. It would be far better to teach children some essential dog language principles to keep them safe around the dogs that inevitably they will face in their everyday lives.